Addicted to Success
Posted by KC | Posted in balance, life, Wall Street Journal, work, WSJ | Posted on 18-02-2009
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I’m a little delayed on this post, but I liked this WSJ article enough that I still want to write about it.
With all of the economic news, reports of job losses and my own personal struggles at work it’s tough not to closely align yourself with your job. Personally, I put a lot into my work and so when it doesn’t go over as well as I would like or if I were to fail/lose my job – it hurts.
In the personal journal section of last Tuesday’s Wall Street Journal there was an article by Kevin Helliker titled, “You Might as Well Face It: You’re Addicted to Success”. In the article he explains the increased level of personal identity that many feel comes from the job and how dangerous that becomes during a recession with increasing job loss numbers.
“It’s like having your entire investment in one stock, and that stock is your job…You’re going to be extramely anxous about losing that job, and depressed if you do.”
The article offers some of ways to counter this:
- Broaden your circle of friends and colleagues
- Disassociate your identity from professional status by taking pride in characteristics that can’t be stripped away, such as virtue, integreity, honesty, and generosity.
- Invest more time and pride in relationships with family, friends and community.
Life is too short to worry about work. You can work all day and night to get ahead, but at the end of the day – or rather at the end of your life – if you feel regret, what was it all for? I need to constantly remind myself that the idea is to work to live, not live to work.
